I'd love to meet up some time. You're somewhere around New Haven, right?
My best friend grew up in Putnam, CT and I used to visit him there back in the 90s. My Dad lived in Ridgefield, CT in the 80s, but moved to MA in 1990. My step-father's siblings and families all lived down around Norwich, Jewett City, and Canterbury. We visited several times a year when I was a kid, but most of them moved away or died since. I spent a fair amount of time in that state in the 80s and 90s, but not much since other than driving through. CT and VT are the only New England states I have not lived in and I can probably count the days I've spent in VT on my fingers with a few to spare.