Great price on the wheel!
I have the MS wheel too. I know this is more than you want to spend but this is what I have:
http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B0..._m=ATVPDKIKX0DER&pf_rd_r=1BFFVTV701TP0K6Q1NSG
It needs an add-on mount for the wheel as the MS wheel is oddly shaped and will not fit on most mounts (unless made specifically for it). The mount is here:
http://www.amazon.com/Playseat-X-Box-Wireless-Wheel-Mounting/dp/B001ED5BM4/ref=pd_sim_sg_5
I am extremely satisfied with it. I bought a special version on the seat (Forza 3 edition) that came with the add-on, wheel, and game for about the price of the seat by itself. I'm getting my monies worth since I am also using the seat with my Logitech Driving Force GT wheel and GT5.
As you probably already know, the base of the MS wheel is curved (so it can sit on your lap), not flat, and the clamping system will not work well on thin, non-tailor-fitted bases. Most stands work with the Logitech or Fanetec Porsche wheels by default, but typically need a special add-on or be purpose built to work with the MS Wheel. If you are thinking of using the stand for the PS3 as well (which the MS wheel does not work with), you might want to buy a stand that uses the add-on approach as opposed to being purpose built so you can use it with both wheels.
Another idea: I have successfully clamped the MS wheel using the clamping attachment that comes with it to a card table and used that before I got the seat (the items shipped separately and I got the wheel a month before the seat). That worked pretty wheel and was very stable.
As regards the stands the Xlerator seems the most stable as it has the side bars that appear to connect to the seat/couch you might play from. However, don't expect a whole lot, even the vertical column of my seat will wobble a little, but it isn't enough to distract from game play.